So, its been quite a while since I last updated. Well ! Two months and eleven days to be precise. And there have been a lot of things going on in my life. So, to start with, I am completely over Arpita. Yes, Finally ! Actually that is the reason for me not updating since a long time. Before I started this blog, I used to miss her a bit. And I thought expressing my feelings would help me, but to be quite honest, it didn't. It only worsened my situation.
I relived my time with her when I wrote about her (Not literally Re-lived, but figuratively speaking) and that made me go through a slight trauma. A constant urge to talk to her, sleepless nights, occasional tears and a real sense of feeling gutted. And I thought that the best way to overcome this was to distance myself from this blog. But, here I am, back again. Rejuvenated, confident and feeling better than ever.
As far as my professional life goes, it sucks ! For the time being, I help out my father in his business when-ever required. I wanted to keep learning some or the other thing, so with fair share of guidance from Suraj Jiju and Darshna Didi - whom I owe a big thank you, for whatever I am today - I have started an IT course at NIIT.
Darshna Didi has had an immense influence in my life in terms of my education and character buildup. She has been a mother figure for me since the day I came in this world. She made me learn my first words, and even after all this years I keep learning from her about different aspects of life. Even I am blogging today is a fair credit to her. I first learned about blogging from her and later Aashi provided the final push. She is my aunt, sister, guide, emergency helpline, a best friend, anything and everything. I know she might be reading this and I just want to thank her for everything.
Suraj Jiju - Love of Darshna Di's life, married now for 15 years - on the other hand is one Jem of a person. Their love story has been one of the best I have come across in real life. They were together for almost around 10 years before they got married. And I just respect jiju for the commitment he has shown even now after their 25 years together. Something I don't think I can ever do, but who knows. And whenever I face a dead end in any of my relationships, they are the first ones I look forward to for advice. At this point of time, they are blessed with two beautiful daughters.
He has been by far the best friend I ever had in my family, even closer than Darshna Di. And another guy who has joined us is Vishal Jiju. He is married to my elder sibling, Payal. He too, just like Suraj Jiju, has come into the family and looked like he's been here forever. They had their first wedding anniversary on 29th of November and they still look so cute, made-for-each-other types and adorable together. I just wish the two couples, best in their lives.
And secretly hoping that I too can find "the love of my life". The one that completes me. The one that makes people around us go all "Awwwwwwww ! They look so cute together, so made-for-each-other types". Till than I am single and just concentrating on my professional life. Sometimes people think if they're single no one can hurt them. But being single and thinking about memories can kill you. But I like it. I like starting each day with a sense of possibility. And I am optimistic because everyday I get a little more desperate, and desperate situations yield the quickest results. Well ! Its better to be single and loving it than to be taken and struggling.
I relived my time with her when I wrote about her (Not literally Re-lived, but figuratively speaking) and that made me go through a slight trauma. A constant urge to talk to her, sleepless nights, occasional tears and a real sense of feeling gutted. And I thought that the best way to overcome this was to distance myself from this blog. But, here I am, back again. Rejuvenated, confident and feeling better than ever.
As far as my professional life goes, it sucks ! For the time being, I help out my father in his business when-ever required. I wanted to keep learning some or the other thing, so with fair share of guidance from Suraj Jiju and Darshna Didi - whom I owe a big thank you, for whatever I am today - I have started an IT course at NIIT.
Darshna Didi has had an immense influence in my life in terms of my education and character buildup. She has been a mother figure for me since the day I came in this world. She made me learn my first words, and even after all this years I keep learning from her about different aspects of life. Even I am blogging today is a fair credit to her. I first learned about blogging from her and later Aashi provided the final push. She is my aunt, sister, guide, emergency helpline, a best friend, anything and everything. I know she might be reading this and I just want to thank her for everything.
Suraj Jiju - Love of Darshna Di's life, married now for 15 years - on the other hand is one Jem of a person. Their love story has been one of the best I have come across in real life. They were together for almost around 10 years before they got married. And I just respect jiju for the commitment he has shown even now after their 25 years together. Something I don't think I can ever do, but who knows. And whenever I face a dead end in any of my relationships, they are the first ones I look forward to for advice. At this point of time, they are blessed with two beautiful daughters.
He has been by far the best friend I ever had in my family, even closer than Darshna Di. And another guy who has joined us is Vishal Jiju. He is married to my elder sibling, Payal. He too, just like Suraj Jiju, has come into the family and looked like he's been here forever. They had their first wedding anniversary on 29th of November and they still look so cute, made-for-each-other types and adorable together. I just wish the two couples, best in their lives.
And secretly hoping that I too can find "the love of my life". The one that completes me. The one that makes people around us go all "Awwwwwwww ! They look so cute together, so made-for-each-other types". Till than I am single and just concentrating on my professional life. Sometimes people think if they're single no one can hurt them. But being single and thinking about memories can kill you. But I like it. I like starting each day with a sense of possibility. And I am optimistic because everyday I get a little more desperate, and desperate situations yield the quickest results. Well ! Its better to be single and loving it than to be taken and struggling.
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